2008-10-02

Wedding Invitation

I got a wedding invitation from a college friend of mine today.  Which is awesome and I am honestly really excited for him, so don’t take the rest of this post as anything other than my sense of humor.

In the invitation he writes:

"Hey everyone!  I'm getting married to the love of my life, (named removed), and everyone is welcome to come!  I know some of you won't be able to make it, but I wanted you to know anyway.  God bless!”

Seriously this a great man.  A solid man of integrity and wisdom.  But I had to laugh at the phrase, “…getting married to the love of my life…”

I’m trying to imagine a different scenario.

“Hey everyone!  I’m getting married.  Not the to the love of my life, but she’ll do.  Quite frankly I’ve decided to just settle seeing as it’s taken this long to find someone even worth settling for.  But I would really like you celebrate this union.  I am going to make an honest go of it and will need you as a reminder that I’m choosing to love this girl.  I know that some of you can’t make it, so just mail your gift in.  We are registered at Best Buy, Sharper Image and Spencer’s Gifts.”

What do you think?

 

2008-09-30

Love Lockdown

Have you heard Kanye West's new song? Supposedly it is going to be the first release off his new album which may come out toward the end of the year. I had the link to this a couple of weeks ago, but I had forgotten about it and just listened to it for the first time tonight. I'm gonna admit, usually Kanye's ego just annoys me, and I'm not sure if I can agree with anything in the song lyrically, but this is a great sound.
Click the image below for link:


2008-09-29

10 Commandments of Blogging

The Blogging Ten Commandments, according to the Evangelical Alliance:

  1. You shall not put your blog before your integrity.
  2. You shall not make an idol of your blog.
  3. You shall not misuse your screen name by using your anonymity to sin.
  4. Remember the Sabbath day by taking one day off a week from your blog.
  5. Honour your fellow-bloggers above yourselves and do not give undue significance to their mistakes.
  6. You shall not murder someone else’s honour, reputation or feelings.
  7. You shall not use the web to commit or permit adultery in your mind.
  8. You shall not steal another person’s content.
  9. You shall not give false testimony against your fellow-blogger.
  10. You shall not covet your neighbour's blog ranking.  Be content with your own content.

Read about it HERE.

Good Guy Award

Just read this bit in Peter King’s Monday Morning Quarterback (MMQB).  Pretty cool.  This guy just continues to prove himself as an honorable man; which can be difficult in his line of work.

And while Peter King gives him a “Good Guy of the Week” award, isn’t this the standard that every Christian should have?

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Good Guy of the Week

Arizona quarterback Kurt Warner.

Karen Crouse of the New York Times wrote a good feature on Warner in last Friday's paper, with a prescient story as the lead. Seems that Warner, wife, Brenda, and one or more of the Warner children have a practice the night before football games. They sit at their table in a restaurant, look over the dining room, and pick out one family. Warner then informs the wait staff that, anonymously, he'd like the dinner tab of that family of strangers added to his.

Crouse wrote the Warners have been doing this for several years "as a way of instilling in their children the joy of giving,'' and quoted Warner thusly: "We want our kids to grow up knowing that because of football we are so blessed.''

Just another reason why you can never say enough good things about Kurt Warner.

 

1 Game Playoff

Who’s it going to be for that final A.L. playoff spot: the Tigers or the White Sox?

If I was a gambling man, I’d put money on the…um…this is tough…TIGERS!...no…WHITE SOX…yeah definitely the White Sox.

 

2008-09-28

Travel Plans

Looking at the postseason schedule and trying to figure out when I should buy a ticket to LA.

Of course this depends on if the Dodgers make the World Series. For the best price I need to purchase two weeks out, so it's hard to have a guarantee.

I love that there is a regular season playoff two years in a row. Baseball is so amazing!

2008-09-27

In The News:

Prosecutors Drop Charge Related to "Passing Gas" in DUI Case
Hilarious!

New Klosterman

Can't wait to get this one. But I must say that his books are always better in an audio version.

Gangster Babies

These would be great for children everywhere. Because we need to be honest people: the hip hop culture has done nothing but benefit the health and wellness of our culture. It would only do more wonders to introduce the misogynistic values, obsessive greed and language of hate into the lives of our future generation.
Buying mine today!

Thanks Dad...

...for introducing me to Paul Newman movies; helping me appreciate his brilliant work from such a young age.

Still one of my most favorite scenes in a movie ever!
Paul Newman
1925-2008

Root Root Root for the...

Dodgers?!

Now that the Astros are out (and the possibility of World Series tickets loom).

2008-09-25

Greatest Catch Ever?

If not THE greatest, it certainly ranks pretty high...

Maybe You're Just Making Excuses...

This is a great commercial:

2008-09-23

I Can Now Forget About These...

10 Books Not To Read Before You Die

 

10.  Ulysses – James Joyce

9.  Lord of the Rings – J R R Tolkien

8.  For Whom the Bell Tolls – Ernest Hemingway

7.  À la Recherche du Temps Perdu – Marcel Proust

6.  The Dice Man – Luke Reinhart

5.  Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas – Hunter S Thompson

4.  The Beauty Myth – Naomi Wolff

3  War and Peace – Leo Tolstoy

2.  The Iliad -- Homer

1.  Pride and Prejudice – Jane Austen

 

(Taken From Can’t Be Arsed: 101 Things Not to Do Before You Die by Richard Wilson)

2008-09-22

Grocery Results

I thought I'd share the result of my hunting excursion this evening. If there was a way to stuff and mount what I bagged I certainly would, cause that's what we do in Texas. Here are my trophies: grocery

- 1 box of Post Raisin Bran: I choose Raisin Bran because I recently an article online that said having your daily intake of fiber will help you avoid colon cancer. And that is definitely not the cancer I want. So the box of Raisin Bran claims to provide all the fiber I need.

- 2 boxes of Cheez-Its Reduced Fat: I don't like regular Cheez-Its. Only reduced fat. And definitely any of those flavored Cheez-Its. These are a great snack.

- 1 bottle of Promised Land Fat Free milk: I like the glass bottles, but they are not as large as other jugs of milk. I get really nervous that I might happen to drink spoiled milk, it's happened before, and I won't be able to consume milk for months.

- 1 bottle of Simple Orange juice medium pulp: it's 100% juice.

- 1 gallon of HEB (store) brand laundry detergent.

- 2 bags of chips:...and...

- 1 jar of Clint's Texas Salsa (medium): clintspicante.com or salsamonster.com. I like to test other brands of salsa for when I make my own.

- 2 bags of Jolly Time 100% Organic popcorn: my favorite snack.

- 1 bottle of Crisco pure canola oil: it's cholesterol free. It's for the popcorn.

- 1 loaf of HEB brand 100% Whole Wheat multigrain baked bread: this is for pb&j, (which I had plenty of Rachel...the answer to your question)

- 6 fat free Light Strawberry yogurt: ...and...

- 6 99% fat free Blended Strawberry yogurt: these make for a good breakfast.

- 5 Minneolas Tangelos

- 4 Peaches

- 1 bag of baby carrots

- 1 Cantaloupe

- 3 bags of gummy candy

There you go. That should last...what?...3 weeks?...maybe more.

I have to admit...

...this is kinda cool. While I hate the Cub, naturally as a Astros (and Rangers) fan. The obsessive whinning of their fans. I do have to admit this song by Eddie Vedder is pretty darn cool.

Selig has Sold Out

We were playoff bound until this happened.
Okay maybe not exactly bound, but we were mapping out the trip.



Grocery Shopping

I’m at work, getting ready to head for home, but need to make a stop and pick up some groceries.  Here’s my list:

-          Bread (probably a wheat or multi-gran)

-          Fruit (Oranges, Peaches, anything else that might look good)

-          Milk (Promised Land, skim I think…I know the color of the label)

-          One Box of Cereal  (probably Cheerios or Raisin Bran)

-          Cheez-Its

-          Popcorn

-          Maybe some Orange Juice

-          Oil (for the popcorn)

That’s all I can think of for now.  Maybe I’ll see something there that I’ll just have to get…doubt it though.

This might give you some idea as to my culinary passions.

Actually cooking is fun…I just don’t do it much.

2008-09-20

Regulating Morality

I read this interesting quote today by Martin Luther King Jr. that is definitely challenging some thoughts as I continue, like many of you, to evaluate the presidental candidates and whom I will vote for.
Read:

Now the other myth that gets around is the idea that legislation cannot really solve the problem and that it has no great role to play in this period of social change because you’ve got to change the heart and you can’t change the heart through legislation. You can’t legislate morals. The job must be done through education and religion. Well, there’s half-truth involved here. Certainly, if the problem is to be solved then in the final sense, hearts must be changed. Religion and education must play a great role in changing the heart. But we must go on to say that while it may be true that morality cannot be legislated, behavior can be regulated. It may be true that the law cannot change the heart but it can restrain the heartless. It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me but it can keep him from lynching me and I think that is pretty important, also. So there is a need for executive orders. There is a need for judicial decrees. There is a need for civil rights legislation on the local scale within states and on the national scale from the federal government. [emphasis added]
Taken from Martin Luther King, Jr.’s address at Western Michigan University, December 18, 1963, cited in The Case for Life: Equipping Christians to Engage the Culture by Scott Klusendorf

2008-09-19

Classifieds, Resumes & Questionnaires

So most people who know me know that I am currently on a quest to find a church where I can serve.  I currently have my resume out at couple of churches. 

To give you an idea how this process works I thought I’d write up a post describing the how I’ve seen this work.

To start a ministry search you have to know where to begin.  This is fairly easy, but not really.  I use three main sources for finding open ministry positions. 

-          First, my Bible college, Ozark Christian College, has on their website a page with opened ministry positions. 

-          Second I use Youth Specialties’ website.

-          And third and probably most importantly I use word of mouth. 

I say this is easy, but not really, because while you may have some useful sites to find openings, it doesn’t necessarily give you a good idea on which church will be best for you.  Plus I’ve found it more difficult to hear the Spirit’s influence when I have a list like that in front of me.  Generally this is why I prefer word of mouth best.

Depending on whether you cold call or not will determine the type of immediate response by a church.  Sometime it results in a form letter (via e-mail of course) stating that they have your resume on file and are currently collecting additional resumes.  I don’t exactly know how to read these responses, sometimes I like to believe they are truly considering me and other times I quickly move on. 

This job search is rather unusual for me, in that every church I’ve worked with the position came to me rather easily.  Either I had one interview and I was quickly hired, or they cold called me offering the position on site (practically).  But for the past few years this has not been the case. 

Once contact has been made with a church, at least on several occasions, the church will try to gain some insight into me by having me fill out a questionnaire.  This will help them weed out candidates before they ever get to the actual interview process.  Here is a current questionnaire I am working on to give you some idea:

1.        Have you read the vision, goals and statement of faith I sent you?  Do you have any questions about any of these?  Do you agree with them?  (if not, please explain what you disagree with and why)

2.        How did you come to Christ? 

3.        What is your church background?

4.        What is your family background and how has that or does that effect your spiritual walk?

5.        Tell us about your relationship with Christ and how it’s grown recently?

6.        What discourages you, and if you are attacked spiritually, where are you first hit?

7.        What was the most exciting part of your last job in youth ministry?

8.        Why did you leave (or are you leaving) that position?

9.        How long do you see yourself at your next position in youth ministry?

10.     What are your long term career and life goals?

11.     What is your philosophy of ministry? 

12.     What do you see as your strengths?  How do you plan to capitalize on these strengths?

13.     What do you see as your weaknesses?  How do these weaknesses effect your ministry and how do you plan to compensate for them?

14.     Share a little about your last experience recruiting and training volunteers, including how many people you started with, and how many joined your team.

15.     Share a negative experience managing a volunteer.  How did you handle it?

16.     Do you consider yourself teachable?  Give an example of this trait from your last job.

17.     What areas do you see a need for growth in your next youth ministry experience? 

18.     What do you enjoy reading?  What have you’ve read lately?  What books or articles have greatly impacted you?

19.     What do you do to stay current with youth culture today?

20.     Have you ever written your own curriculum, discussion questions or training material?  Briefly share with us an example of something you wrote/developed and how it was received.

21.     Give an example of a positive quality or characteristic that you modeled, and as a result, saw it in the lives of your students.

22.     Share an example of a time when you modeled a negative behavior.

23.     Are there any areas of your life that may cause others to ask questions (i.e. use of alcohol, tobacco, entertainment choices, etc.)?

24.     Share a positive experience from your last youth ministry position where you acted as a team player.

25.     Share a negative experience with one of your co-workers and how the situation was handled.

26.     Give an example of a successful outreach program or event you put together?

27.     Give an example of programs, activities or events that you created to help kids spiritually grow.  What were some of the elements of these programs?

28.     Have you been involved or lead a short term mission trip with youth?  If you have tell us about how it went and what you would do differently. 

29.     In your last youth ministry job, how much one-on-one time did you spend each week with kids?

30.     Have you ever made an effort to contact “unchurched” kids?  If so, tell us about that experience.  How did you maintain the relationship?

31.     In the past, what avenues of contact have you used to connect with parents?  Which of these were most effective?

32.     How have you gone about setting a budget in your past ministry?

33.     What are your thoughts about fund raisers, sponsorships, and scholarships for youth trips/conventions/events?

34.     In your past youth ministry, how did you help students get involved in the church as a whole, not just the youth ministry?

35.     What else should we know about you?  What are your hobbies?  What do you enjoy doing in your spare time?

Yeah…not necessarily a multiple choice thing is it?

Once you arrive at the interview I have on a few occasions had two levels of interviews; a phone interview followed by the face to face.  I hate phone interviews.  I love my phone, but primarily for the texting, e-mailing, internet purposes, not for actually talking.  I always feel like a phone interview goes horrible, but after a face to face interview I tend to be rather confident. 

Now of course during this whole process prayer is essential.  No Christian wants to do something out of God’s ultimate will, and while I believe in our freedom to make choices, you still want to be guided by the Spirit in these choices.

After you have worked through all that and the church comes back and possibly offers the position, this is where listening in prayer and listening to your counsel play into actually making a decision.  Where rubber meets road. 

Hopefully you and the church have done the best to make sure long before an offer is made to ensure that you would be a good fit and a essential piece to their staffing puzzle, but sometimes the Spirit guides us away from both our heart’s desires and our head’s logic.    I would hate to arrive at a church and within months sudden feel like I was in the wrong place.  That would be both unhealthy for me and for the church. 

 

Anyways….this is extremely brief, but hopefully insightful. 

 

If any of you have some insights into the above questionnaire please feel free to help me.  Specifically on questions 12, 13, 16, 20, 21, 22 (be gentle), 23 or 35…